FAKE HELP, help me?

Why do some people attempt to manipulate and control others? Nobody knows. Some manipulators probably have a personality disorder; others are probably unconsciously mimicking behavior they grew up with and haven’t yet examined; others are probably using planned, calculated attempts to get what they want in life. 

Last time I heard about one of manipulation techiques which is called "FAKE HELP" and that's why I decided to write some notes about it. 

Fake help is–you guessed it–when a person pretends to try and help you, but really their “help” is just an attempt to control your behavior. Fake help becomes gaslighting when someone disingenuously “helps” you with some sort of psychological problem, either one you really have or one invented by them, with some motive other than helping. Be carefull sometimes HELP is dangerous.. 

slim and fit!

Weight loss- this issue is connected directly with women, the vast majority of people opting for weight loss are women. Men also attempt to lose weight but for a different reason, men do it for impoving health (in the case of hypertension, excessive cholesterol, infarct risk, etc) less frequently due to the appearance or self-esteem. As opposed to men most women do it for aesthetic reasons. Women have always cared about their appearance, body condition, skin, nails, hair. Nowadays in world full of ads with pristine beautiful women, the pressure of perfect looks and the figure is higher. It is important that the diet should be well-matched to the body and a healthy! Woman, remeber that all comercials are fake- photos in magazins, TV and billboards are improved and modified. So maybe accept your body will be a better option than torturing a drastic diets?

can you imagine that you have only 62cm?

There is a woman in India who has just 62 cm. Jyoti Amge, because we talk about her, is an Indian actress notable for being the world's smallest living woman according to Guinness World Records.
She weighs 11 pounds and stands at 23 inches. She has a "form of dwarfism called achondroplasia". 
Jyoti can't do normal, everyday things because she look like 3months baby. For her safety always someone needs to be with her.
On her fame, she says, "I don't like it if I am being held like a baby," but that she will let some people and fans pick her up.

She also gets mad when someone annoys her by touching her hair or keeps touching her without permission.

Could you imagine how difficult is life with 62cm height? But Jyoti decided to use it in the best way and... stay ACTRESS! We can see her in different movies, in August 2014 Amge was even cast in American Horror Story: Freak Show!

Despite of height she has a big personality. If you have not possibility see her with your own eyes you can go to Celebrity Wax Museum in Lonavala. Where you can easily find her wax statue.

In Poland we have TV show, which is called "woman on the edge of the world" and I "met" Jyoti by watching it because one episode was tottaly about her. 

EDPISODE: the smallest woman in the world

Enjoy watching ;) 

Hitchhike is always good idea

More and more popular mood of transport is hitchhike, why? It is so exciting, cheap and often the adrenture start from hitchhike! How to do it? The following instructions have been collected from the experiences of many a weathered hitchhiker.

First - Invest in a good map. 

A detailed map is worth the money. If you need a free map, though, find a tourist spot (hotel, airport, bus station, tourist information booth) and pick up a pamphlet that has a decent map inside. State welcome centers on interstate highways also have free highway maps for their state. Rental car places tend to have the best free maps. Look for a map that shows road numbers, rest areas, and gas stations.

Second - Take precautions.

Scan your ID (and passport, if traveling internationally) and e-mail it to yourself. If it gets stolen, print out copies at a library. For passports, go to an embassy with your copies and do what you need to do to get a new passport. Americans will need to provide two passport photos and fill out a few forms to get a temporary passport. Have the phone number for your credit card company before you leave. If you lose your credit card, call them immediately, cancel your card, and have them send a new one to an address where you can receive it (like an embassy). Pack some pepper spray, in case you encounter a shady character, on or off the road. 

make a sign! just take a piece of paper, pen and write BIG, VISIBLE name of cities which you want to visit ;) It helps you to find the truck and car!

Wish you luck and I'm waiting for your comments! 

ghosts? easly catch them all!

Catching ghosts is a tricky business! You need to know where to look for them next level- how to confirm their presence and the best ways to capture them. Remember, we are talking about the GHOST so you also need a strong tolerance for fear!

Definitelly you should look for ghosts in old houses it is mean houses like 100 or 200 years old, not from the 1970s. Sometimes when a person dies (additional avantage), their spirit will return to the place where they died or a place they can't bear to leave behind, which is often their family home. Just be sure to get permission before you go ghost hunting on private property.
Cemeteries are another good location for ghost catching, even if they can be a little creepy at night! You can find the ghost also in old school, old prison buildings or in the place when the morder or suicide was commited. 
ADVICE! Sometimes, ghosts cannot bear to leave their physical bodies behind after death, while other spirits (particular those who haven't been able to move on) come to visit the graves of their family and friends.

Then develope a method to catch ghosts, few of methods are here:
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And... try to catch the most polite ghost, wish u luck!

breakup? broken heart?

Going through heartbreak can feel like being underwater when you need to breathe. If you're dealing with heartbreak and want to heal, try these suggestions to find the new you.

Give yourself some me time.
Remove all the memories of the person from your everyday life. 
Disconnect the person from all the social networks you use. 
Exercise and eat right.
Stay optimistic. 

I found on the Internet some advice how to deal with heartbreak. First statement- ok, you will need some time for you, time to focus on your needs. Sometimes in relation we loose our desires and we dedicate full atention to the other person- what is obviously wrong. So relax and spend some time with .. you. ;)
Second statement- hide all souvenirs, don't throw. Why? After some times, when you cool off, the time to mention the relation will come. It could be few days, months or years but back to souvenirs will be worth it!
Third statement? I totally disagree.. only kids behave that way. Don't be foolish!
Two lasts senetnces are totally true. Stay optimistic, take care of yourself, do something good for your body! It's hightime to smile as much as possible. It'll help you feel better and look great. Watch funny movies, read funny books, or hang with funny friends.

Hope u like it, 
xoxo 

Can education teach you how to live your life?

Oscar Wilde claimed that “education is an admirable thing but it is well to remember from time to time that nothing that is worth knowing can be taught.” It seems that words uttered a century ago are even more accurate in relation to the contemporary state of education. After answering three simple questions you will have no doubt about the brilliance of that statement.

            Does education provide knowledge essential to one's survival? Cluttering young minds with dates, definitions and formulae – is what schools do best. What they tend to completely disregard is practical knowledge. What use do we have of knowing the names and specifications of all the crops planted in Europe when we are unable to plant and grow (not to mention make use of) a single one of them with our own hands? No matter how educated we are, when cut off from the goods of civilisation we are not likely to survive even a week on our own.

            Can education teach you how to live your life? The answer is simple – no it can not.