Sunday, December 6, 2015

FAKE HELP, help me?

Why do some people attempt to manipulate and control others? Nobody knows. Some manipulators probably have a personality disorder; others are probably unconsciously mimicking behavior they grew up with and haven’t yet examined; others are probably using planned, calculated attempts to get what they want in life. 
Last time I heard about one of manipulation techiques which is called "FAKE HELP" and that's why I decided to write some notes about it. 
Fake help is–you guessed it–when a person pretends to try and help you, but really their “help” is just an attempt to control your behavior. Fake help becomes gaslighting when someone disingenuously “helps” you with some sort of psychological problem, either one you really have or one invented by them, with some motive other than helping. Be carefull sometimes HELP is dangerous.. 

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